I see it like this: Most men are underachieving cuckolds trapped in a “vanilla” cuckold relationship. What do I mean by these comments? Your wife decides the most important things whether how to spend money, what to watch on TV, or even what you eat. She allows you to indulge in some things you want only to hold those things against you at a later date so she may apply pressure for you to conform. Your wife made the rules. Your wife could cheat if she wanted to do so, and she would never get caught unless she wanted it that way. She keeps enough pressure on you to give her what she wants most of the time that you are busy pleasing her, so if you wanted to stray she would notice it. Yet she could do it, and get away with it. Where does the vanilla part come from? Where did so many conservative women come from? They did not come from anywhere. They reinvented themselves so that they could marry you.

I went to college. I was experimental, yet the vast majority of the girls were 50 x more hoochie than me. Do you remember all those wild girls? Where did they all go? You are married to them! lol Either they never realized that size matters and settled for obligatory marital sex, or they simply gave up being sexually satisfied in exchange for a socially acceptable marriage. They reinvented themselves. Vanilla, vanilla, vanilla!

I do not know about you, but I prefer things to be out in the open since it is more fun. When I see old girlfriends driving their Volvos, I remember the nights they got drunk and were banged by an entire fraternity. News flash. Most of your wives are not demure, innocent, sexually conservative women. They were, and are sluts. They had more sex than you in college. Dick was always available for them. They did not have to “work” to get laid like you did.

So my advice to you is: decide what you are, and then be the best that you can. If you are indeed a cuckold, then do not try to rekindle the passion from when you first met your wife in order to vamp up your relationship. When you met your wife she was trying to be someone else. Someone you would marry. Try to rekindle what she was like before she ever met you. That is a cuckold’s job!

Also thanks for letting me know you posted. My settings for “comments” was wide open, and someone posted spam for dick enhancers etc. I think I corrected the issue, and I will now have to approve all comments to prevent people from junking my site up. Such a shame:(